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Friday, 7 December 2012

6 Ways to building self confidence | Children



In everyday life, a person who has high self-confidence can be seen from the attitude of tolerance, does not require the support of others in making decisions or doing any task, building self confidence in adults,
always be optimistic and dynamic, and has a strong impetus for the successful accomplishment.

Confidence (self confidence) is a mental condition, where he thought, feeling and believing their ability to behave and act without the influence of other people will have a sense of purpose and responsibility for his actions.

Why have self confidence that important? Because people who have high self confidence will have some advantages like being able to control your emotions, concentrating, trying as much as possible and have a mature plan.

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Let the kids do a lot of things, so you can see which direction the talents and areas of interest. Of the many things that do will definitely add insight and new experience, then give positive support for it. By doing a lot of things, the sense of self-acceptance will begin to grow is the beginning of self-confidence.

Second



Focus Develop a positive things about him. Everyone is born with the uniqueness of each with the potential he was carrying. Nothing in life is exactly the same, as nearly as any he definitely has a different and unique and to develop positive things to yourself then the auto will build a good image in itself. Look when there are disabled people, but they are able to work and stay confident with the existing potential. Surely there is a positive side of every soul is born in the world, right now, would be developed or taken any potential

Third


Give children guidance not criticism. Despite criticism intends to build but life difficult children receive criticism because it makes children feel of guilt, afraid to try new things, and tend to shy expressing desires and actions. An example is the provision of guidance "are you sure you would do that? "According to the mother ... you better do it the consideration it is a positive thing ... And the negative it is ...". But do not forget to listen to the children, listen to children very well done because it fosters self confidence and he is not shy to express his opinions.

Fourth


Facing reality. If the child is too coward, start with your child to confront his fears, and began to assist in the early and off slowly. Teach children to to face reality and not run away from fear and reality. Recommend closer to the thing he feared, as he was able to overcome her fears give praise

Fifth


let the children learn to make decisions to solve problems. Do not jump to save the child when the child falls especially critical to feel inferior, it is natural as parents to prevent children from painful thing, but if you interrupt the situation have been less good because kids need to know that to lose and fall is normal. When children can pick ourselves without your help, the child has the confidence of the decision and the child feels pleasure when he managed to beat the odds.

Sixth

Improve conversation skills. Improving speech can help to feel more comfortable and confident in social situations such as greater training children to try to perform on stage. Do not forget to give motivation and praise when he could do.


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