EDUCATION A MOTHER'S TO THE CHILDREN

A mother's educational in overcoming the problem child ,

and a lot problems of mothers education to children ,which impacts with negatively when their age continued young adults, when rushing the role of a mothers an essentially to educate children from early childhood to adulthood .
but the education is very less, played the mother to child its impact the child is into wrong intercommunication, always forget the importance early childhood education ,Are not a mother is the first school for children ???
but the factors that lead to women's career after had children when she forget the role that ,fully implemented by the role of baby sitter anf a lot of difficulties when a women caring for children generally

Starting from selecting foods until the bedwetting, learn what is most often debated parents and how to resolve conflicts or problems. Every parent understands the beauty of a trip in raising a child, of course, if there is not conflict.

here I will give 11 solutions to overcome generally caring for children problems ,to address the debate about discipline, housekeeping and others.

1. Children's emotions 

Nor the anger child, you reject his request. Are dealing with emotions can make parents feel guilty or sympathetic and give up, but there are also opposing and angry.





All you have to do is balance the sympathetic and educate the message that life is full of pressures because not every person can get what they want. Make sure your child that it's his own problems to solve, but you will always be prepared if children need advice and guidance and direction to you (mothers)

2. Punishment



Children will always testing the limits of patience and make parents arguing. Avoid the this conflict by sitting together in a relax and make six or eight a family rule, explained calmly while giving understanding to the child. Anticipated also the child will test your seriousness about this rule, answer unequivocally "You know the rules."

3. Children who are thirsty the attention





When parents ask children to tidy up things around the house, usually always in ways which less successful, such as the forcing a child or setting up themselves. Conversely, when there are items not cleared, try the "seized" by putting the goods are stuff that are not dealt with in a box or a place out of the reach of children.

Children must do small tasks like throw garbage or clean up the dinner table if you want the goods back. Continue to collect and stuff hostage until their children understand that they have an obligation to society later.

5. Misunderstanding







Lots of communication problems when children to express and try out the idea and feel differently from you. When a child says something that makes you angry, emotional resistant to disclose errors in their minds.

Ask some of questions before giving a reaction, but the effectiveness of the your question dependent on how big your curiosity and respect. Children will know from the tone of voice and facial expression, if you do not corner the child, the child will most likely listen to you.

6. Lack of gratitude


Poor general belief among couples is that they do not need to thank when they get things done, because it was what they are doing. At the dinner table, in front of the children, say " thank you mate " . You will give a very good example to your child and at the same time sustain your marriage.

 
7. The lack of sleep





When children wake up in the night, weary parents arguing about the best way to make the child sleep. Focus on working together when the night begins with creating a comfortable night habits which slowly will make the child fall asleep without you having to be in the room. This way when the child woke up in the night, he will be able to fall asleep alone.

8. Whining and crying



As a parent educator, this is the biggest complaint parents. It's very distressing when there are parents who give up and anyone tries firmly but with good discipline.

Things makes the children confused if you are serious with regulations. By being consistent you also do not teach children to be manipulative and cunning to do as they please. Try saying: "Sorry, my ears can not hear or understand the shouts and cries. Calm down a little and try Speaking politely and I'll listen. "Automatically it will make you teach and give examples of how to talk politely.


9. Discipline




For ending the war discipline, it is necessary to stop the power struggles and start respecting each other. In order for discipline to be effective learning media, discipline must have a natural and logical consequences.

A natural consequence is that occurs without parental intervention, like: we will be cold without a coat. If you do not make the homework, the value will be ugly.

The logical consequence is designed to provide lessons and experiences. For example, a child would be punished if he hits another child.


10.  friend sleeping
Some families are committed to sleeping in one bed when the baby needs to be watched all the time or trouble sleeping child alone. But what happens when parents refused and chose to sleep on the sofa for the rest

If this happens, it's time to rethink the sleeping arrangements for infants and children. Some babies are no longer wake up in the evening after six months and will sleep all night if placed in the crib near you. Child and you will get enough rest if the habit tonight firm, comfortable and consistent.


















11. Picky eaters

Making children eat healthy foods can trigger a variety of different parental feelings towards food, making the food issue is space for parents argue. The main rule is make mealtime a chance to talk and share experiences with family fun.

As long as there is a healthy food which you know will be eaten by children, no need to rush to bribe, coerce or order a meal. Make mealtime fun will make you and your partner can enjoy the time and create the opportunity to try new foods, without having to argue about the food.